Monday, July 15, 2013

Hilton Head Island, South Carolina, June 2013

 

 

 

 

 





Live oaks, draped with Spanish Moss, make me look Heavenward and appreciate what lies in my line of vision.

And thus, my appreciation  for the South Carolina low country can be summed up in fairly few words.  I have been blessed, as my parents have owned a home on Hilton Head Island for the last 15 years.  We've visited during the less crowded winters  and prime summer months during that span.

Always, I have been aware of the water surrounding me.  The Atlantic Ocean rolls toward the island at the beckoning of our moon, and winds lift salt into the air, invigorating one's nostrils so that little doubt is left as to your location.  A latitude and longitude that gives way to sunsets silhouetting cabbage palmettos on the horizon.

In personal terms, the words fresh seafood are legitimate, and the majority of shopping can be done at a grocery called Piggly Wiggly.

And while driving, or pedaling a bike on that island, I will look up, and see the outlines  of Spanish Moss hanging against a sea blue sky reflecting light on a low country island and the surrounding ocean.

Saturday, July 13, 2013

Connor and the Oysters or "Give me oysters and beer, for dinner every day of the year..." *


Upon arrival in Hilton Head Island the third week of June, I was put in charge of daily dinner suggestions.  Generally indecisive, and usually willing to roll with the punches, as well as drink choices, I took this honorary role willingly, as food, especially in southern U.S. regions, is of extreme personal interest.  As we traveled southward, my sister’s oldest son, Connor, texted somewhat regularly, as he and his family were meeting us on the island.  One message in particular caught my eye.  He needed to try oysters, with Uncle Brian, at Captain Woody’s, a Hilton Head institute for laid back bar drinking in a restaurant that serves grouper melt sandwiches and he-crab soup that keeps locals and Midwestern tourists like me coming back for more.

My nephew’s request continued when we rendezvoused at Plantation Club Villas in Sea Pines.  Now, I am definitely no oyster expert.  I probably couldn’t differentiate between a Blue Point and an Apalachicola, but if I’m in an Atlantic or Gulf Coast beach town, give me oysters!  It doesn’t bother me too much if the month has an ‘r’ in it or not.  If they come from local waters, by God, give me oysters. 

So, my first dinner command, upon our second night, was Captain Woody’s, in its new larger location on Target Road.  Finding out our wait would be an hour and a half, Patrick, my brother-in-law, courageously volunteered to help me man the restaurant buzzer in the vicinity of the outdoor bar, cooled by large rotating fans on the ceiling.  The plan was simple, and put into action.  Everyone else would commute to Coligny for shop browsing, and I would order oysters while waiting, happy hour prices still intact.  G.G. would bring Connor back to the restaurant ahead of the rest at the designated hour.

Time of reckoning.  A simple dozen on the half shell.  I told my nephew this is how it would go down.  First, a squeeze of lemon on the 12 gifts from the sea.  Oyster 1, forked from the shell, straight to the mouth and down the hatch.  Neat.  Oyster 2, a dab of cocktail sauce and hint of horseradish on the bivalve.  Oyster 3, placed center of a saltine, with cocktail sauce, eaten as a one-bite open faced sandwich.

“From here, nephew, you’re on your own.  Do what you will.  Eat as many as you want, in the manner that pleases you most.  I’ve done what I can.”

I cannot tell you the guidelines or expectations of Uncles or Godfathers, but if one duty states introducing said young, impressionable mind to ocean dwelling delicacies, sign me up.  Please.

*In case you were wondering, Jimmy Buffett penned the end of the sentence with “…and I’ll feel fine.” in his classic song, Tin Cup Chalice, from 1974’s album A1A.


 

 

Friday, July 12, 2013

"Walkin' by the water..." because "Life is short, but sweet for certain..." Dave Matthews Band June 21, 2013

Emma, Eric, and I went to see Dave Matthews at Klipsch Music Center.  Brandi Carlile opened for him.  She has a nice sound and described how she was brought up on Willie and Johnny.

Dave was excellent.  His music has formed a bond between Emma and myself, and I will go to as many shows as I possibly can with her.  It was cool to see Jeff Coffin on the stage with DMB after seeing him on the Fishers High School auditorium stage last winter.

I especially liked the guitar and vocals in "Lie in our Graves", a song that is a new favorite of mine.  Notable were "The Best of What's Around" and the encore which was highlighted by "Ants Marching."  Even though I didn't get "Two Step", that's alright.  Maybe he'll play it next time I see DMB with Emma.


Thursday, July 11, 2013

Tribute to a favorite place

A special friend of my family, Bill Smith, passed away this summer.  He followed his wife, Betsy, by approximately a year.  The Smiths were my mom's next door neighbors in Mariemont, Ohio, which is a suburb of Cincinnati.  When my mother's parents passed, Betsy and Bill Smith became an extension of her family, and mine, when my parents married.  Events like Thanksgiving meals and Christmas day visits to the Smiths became tradition for me as a child, and I think back to those days with longing and wishes to duplicate the feelings derived from the experiences.

In the late 1960's or perhaps the early 70's, Bill and Betsy Smith bought a duplex on a Florida island called Anna Maria.  South of Tampa and just north of Sarasota, it sits in the Gulf of Mexico, making itself available with just two bridges from the mainland.  In October of 1976, I made my first voyage to Florida with my parents and sister, my Grandma Dorothy, and my Uncle David and Aunt Barbara.  Of course, it was to Anna Maria Island.  My family stayed in the left, and larger side of the duplex.  My relatives stayed on the right.  Driving from the Tampa Airport to the island, I can visualize tall palms against the late afternoon sun through the rear window of the rental car, and understand now the beginning of a love affair with this state blooming in a young mind and heart.

I remember driving there with my family in our Jeep Wagoneer, and listening to Elvis all the way home as he had just left our world.  For most of the 80's, Anna Maria was the spring break destination for myself, my sister, and my mom, who would sell Tampax stock to pay for our airfare.  I brought my close buddy, Rick, there for two consecutive years in high school.  In college, I brought Laura there for the first time.  Betsy and Bill actually encouraged us to marry some day.  We did.  We have traveled there with Emma and Harrison, my parents, and my sister's family.  The last time we went, we took our good friends, who claimed that part of Florida was unlike any other they had seen.  To this day, my son, Harrison, occasionally mentions that we "really need to get back to Anna Maria."  I don't disagree.

The following is an ode to the island.  A love song.  I believe I wrote it on the back of a couple of postcards during a trip in 2000 or 2001.  Nothing has changed.

Anna Maria

Your latitude is such that the rays

of the sun shine radiantly,

bathing your lush foliage and

sand white shorelines in a swath

of ultraviolet persuasion.

It’s a Technicolor oasis that at once

bedazzles and terrifies the eyes

with its clarity of shape and form.

In the confines of your tiny perimeter,

blooms of deep, luscious pinks and whites

comparable only to a Yankee snow thrust

out and sway decadently if a breeze

from the Gulf saunters through,

but mostly hang in an Island stillness,

from the defensive arms of plants

whose magical gift is to exist in

more hues of green than is logical

to man’s eyes. 

Move outward in any direction to the

blankets of crushed rock and shell,

pulverized to a fine, finger caressing smoothness,

the Island’s pride, its trip to the bank.

And no one’s surprised, what with its

suggestive contrast to the Gulf of Mexico,

a glowing  turquoise giving way to deeper

tints of blue, home to scads of fish,

roaming dolphins, occasional sharks,

and the vulnerable manatee.

Two age worn piers, reaching out

into  the water, run parallel as they

connect land and sea,

drawing us out farther, yet never

too far from this haven, this Island.

 


Saturday, July 21, 2012

Back to the Blog

What's the use of a blog if it sits idle?  Time to pick up the writing implement and put it to paper.  Words now, words.

Wednesday, June 24, 2009

DAISY

You seasoned our kitchen furniture.

You were a canine economic stimulus package to the shoe and underwear industries.

You learned how to potty outside, but had the canine sense to realize it was optional.

You brought out the pup in Kipper and the soft-side in us.

A belly rub was always in store any time you rolled on your back.

You gave me an excuse to sing and brought me joy on our winter evening walks.

You were the puppy of the house--a dog's Huck Finn.

And even though our carpet's a little cleaner, I miss you, pup.

Monday, January 12, 2009

Up From the Depths: A Tale of Football Depression

It's been nearly a week and two days since the Colts lost to the San Diego Chargers in the opening round of the AFC PlayOffs. I haven't watched much news or read many newspaper articles, outside a couple of Bob Kravitz columns in The Star. I haven't listened to sports talk radio one single time. I am just now able to reflect on what was and what could have been. This article is my therapy.

Seven straight years of playoff appearances. A couple of AFC Championship heartbreaks. A glorious Super Bowl. And a few too many 1st round exits, this being the latest. This one seemed to hurt more than others.

When Darren Sproles ran the overtime touchdown into the Colts end zone and those referee's arms went up parallel, I just sat there and stared, trying to be a good host and wish farewell to my friends who cheered on the Colts with me that evening, but my half-hearted smile was false, and my heart was dull. Zombie-like, I ambled through the house, going through the motions of getting ready for bed, needing solace, but craving solitude. Go to sleep, and maybe it will have been a dream.

This one hurt a little more. With no particular tier of importance, let me explain why.

The Coach. Tony Dungy is an honorable man. He will leave football and work for the good of those less fortunate. Today, that was confirmed. But I had the feeling this was it. I wanted a storybook ending. A second Super Bowl ring earned from a game played, with poetic justice, in Tampa, Florida.

The Wide Receiver. Marvin Harrison is legendary. He is a 1st round ballot Hall of Famer someday. The past 2 seasons have been tough. Chances are, he won't be a Colt next season. A championship would have lightened these hard realities.

The Quarterback. Peyton Manning. Who works harder? A rocky beginning of the season after two knee surgeries to a 9 game winning streak and League MVP. Boy did I want that Lombardi Trophy to accompany the personal accolades.

San Diego. The Chargers. Two years in a row, they've knocked out the Colts. It's a little too reminiscient of New England, without the titles.

Pride. I identify the Colts with where I live. I want Indianapolis to be a dynasty. I suffered through the lean years in the nineties, and became a fan. I pay for season tickets. I invest money, high blood pressure, and time with my buddy I'd never trade. It's an experience. I've tasted the pinnacle, and it was sweet.

Before you write this off as drivel, let me say something. I am very lucky. I am lucky because things in my life are good enough to be able to worry about a professional sports team. But I'd be lying if I said the spring in my step hasn't been absent this past week.

Colts blue for all the wrong reasons.