Emma, Eric, and I went to see Dave Matthews at Klipsch Music Center. Brandi Carlile opened for him. She has a nice sound and described how she was brought up on Willie and Johnny.
Dave was excellent. His music has formed a bond between Emma and myself, and I will go to as many shows as I possibly can with her. It was cool to see Jeff Coffin on the stage with DMB after seeing him on the Fishers High School auditorium stage last winter.
I especially liked the guitar and vocals in "Lie in our Graves", a song that is a new favorite of mine. Notable were "The Best of What's Around" and the encore which was highlighted by "Ants Marching." Even though I didn't get "Two Step", that's alright. Maybe he'll play it next time I see DMB with Emma.
Friday, July 12, 2013
Thursday, July 11, 2013
Tribute to a favorite place
A special friend of my family, Bill Smith, passed away this summer. He followed his wife, Betsy, by approximately a year. The Smiths were my mom's next door neighbors in Mariemont, Ohio, which is a suburb of Cincinnati. When my mother's parents passed, Betsy and Bill Smith became an extension of her family, and mine, when my parents married. Events like Thanksgiving meals and Christmas day visits to the Smiths became tradition for me as a child, and I think back to those days with longing and wishes to duplicate the feelings derived from the experiences.
In the late 1960's or perhaps the early 70's, Bill and Betsy Smith bought a duplex on a Florida island called Anna Maria. South of Tampa and just north of Sarasota, it sits in the Gulf of Mexico, making itself available with just two bridges from the mainland. In October of 1976, I made my first voyage to Florida with my parents and sister, my Grandma Dorothy, and my Uncle David and Aunt Barbara. Of course, it was to Anna Maria Island. My family stayed in the left, and larger side of the duplex. My relatives stayed on the right. Driving from the Tampa Airport to the island, I can visualize tall palms against the late afternoon sun through the rear window of the rental car, and understand now the beginning of a love affair with this state blooming in a young mind and heart.
I remember driving there with my family in our Jeep Wagoneer, and listening to Elvis all the way home as he had just left our world. For most of the 80's, Anna Maria was the spring break destination for myself, my sister, and my mom, who would sell Tampax stock to pay for our airfare. I brought my close buddy, Rick, there for two consecutive years in high school. In college, I brought Laura there for the first time. Betsy and Bill actually encouraged us to marry some day. We did. We have traveled there with Emma and Harrison, my parents, and my sister's family. The last time we went, we took our good friends, who claimed that part of Florida was unlike any other they had seen. To this day, my son, Harrison, occasionally mentions that we "really need to get back to Anna Maria." I don't disagree.
The following is an ode to the island. A love song. I believe I wrote it on the back of a couple of postcards during a trip in 2000 or 2001. Nothing has changed.
In the late 1960's or perhaps the early 70's, Bill and Betsy Smith bought a duplex on a Florida island called Anna Maria. South of Tampa and just north of Sarasota, it sits in the Gulf of Mexico, making itself available with just two bridges from the mainland. In October of 1976, I made my first voyage to Florida with my parents and sister, my Grandma Dorothy, and my Uncle David and Aunt Barbara. Of course, it was to Anna Maria Island. My family stayed in the left, and larger side of the duplex. My relatives stayed on the right. Driving from the Tampa Airport to the island, I can visualize tall palms against the late afternoon sun through the rear window of the rental car, and understand now the beginning of a love affair with this state blooming in a young mind and heart.
I remember driving there with my family in our Jeep Wagoneer, and listening to Elvis all the way home as he had just left our world. For most of the 80's, Anna Maria was the spring break destination for myself, my sister, and my mom, who would sell Tampax stock to pay for our airfare. I brought my close buddy, Rick, there for two consecutive years in high school. In college, I brought Laura there for the first time. Betsy and Bill actually encouraged us to marry some day. We did. We have traveled there with Emma and Harrison, my parents, and my sister's family. The last time we went, we took our good friends, who claimed that part of Florida was unlike any other they had seen. To this day, my son, Harrison, occasionally mentions that we "really need to get back to Anna Maria." I don't disagree.
The following is an ode to the island. A love song. I believe I wrote it on the back of a couple of postcards during a trip in 2000 or 2001. Nothing has changed.
Anna Maria
Your
latitude is such that the rays
of the sun
shine radiantly,
bathing your
lush foliage and
sand white
shorelines in a swath
of
ultraviolet persuasion.
It’s a
Technicolor oasis that at once
bedazzles
and terrifies the eyes
with its
clarity of shape and form.
In the
confines of your tiny perimeter,
blooms of deep,
luscious pinks and whites
comparable
only to a Yankee snow thrust
out and sway
decadently if a breeze
from the
Gulf saunters through,
but mostly
hang in an Island stillness,
from the
defensive arms of plants
whose
magical gift is to exist in
more hues of
green than is logical
to man’s
eyes.
Move outward
in any direction to the
blankets of
crushed rock and shell,
pulverized
to a fine, finger caressing smoothness,
the Island’s
pride, its trip to the bank.
And no one’s
surprised, what with its
suggestive
contrast to the Gulf of Mexico,
a
glowing turquoise giving way to deeper
tints of
blue, home to scads of fish,
roaming
dolphins, occasional sharks,
and the
vulnerable manatee.
Two age worn
piers, reaching out
into the water, run parallel as they
connect land
and sea,
drawing us
out farther, yet never
too far from
this haven, this Island.
Saturday, July 21, 2012
Back to the Blog
What's the use of a blog if it sits idle? Time to pick up the writing implement and put it to paper. Words now, words.
Wednesday, June 24, 2009
DAISY
You seasoned our kitchen furniture.
You were a canine economic stimulus package to the shoe and underwear industries.
You learned how to potty outside, but had the canine sense to realize it was optional.
You brought out the pup in Kipper and the soft-side in us.
A belly rub was always in store any time you rolled on your back.
You gave me an excuse to sing and brought me joy on our winter evening walks.
You were the puppy of the house--a dog's Huck Finn.
And even though our carpet's a little cleaner, I miss you, pup.
You were a canine economic stimulus package to the shoe and underwear industries.
You learned how to potty outside, but had the canine sense to realize it was optional.
You brought out the pup in Kipper and the soft-side in us.
A belly rub was always in store any time you rolled on your back.
You gave me an excuse to sing and brought me joy on our winter evening walks.
You were the puppy of the house--a dog's Huck Finn.
And even though our carpet's a little cleaner, I miss you, pup.
Monday, January 12, 2009
Up From the Depths: A Tale of Football Depression
It's been nearly a week and two days since the Colts lost to the San Diego Chargers in the opening round of the AFC PlayOffs. I haven't watched much news or read many newspaper articles, outside a couple of Bob Kravitz columns in The Star. I haven't listened to sports talk radio one single time. I am just now able to reflect on what was and what could have been. This article is my therapy.
Seven straight years of playoff appearances. A couple of AFC Championship heartbreaks. A glorious Super Bowl. And a few too many 1st round exits, this being the latest. This one seemed to hurt more than others.
When Darren Sproles ran the overtime touchdown into the Colts end zone and those referee's arms went up parallel, I just sat there and stared, trying to be a good host and wish farewell to my friends who cheered on the Colts with me that evening, but my half-hearted smile was false, and my heart was dull. Zombie-like, I ambled through the house, going through the motions of getting ready for bed, needing solace, but craving solitude. Go to sleep, and maybe it will have been a dream.
This one hurt a little more. With no particular tier of importance, let me explain why.
The Coach. Tony Dungy is an honorable man. He will leave football and work for the good of those less fortunate. Today, that was confirmed. But I had the feeling this was it. I wanted a storybook ending. A second Super Bowl ring earned from a game played, with poetic justice, in Tampa, Florida.
The Wide Receiver. Marvin Harrison is legendary. He is a 1st round ballot Hall of Famer someday. The past 2 seasons have been tough. Chances are, he won't be a Colt next season. A championship would have lightened these hard realities.
The Quarterback. Peyton Manning. Who works harder? A rocky beginning of the season after two knee surgeries to a 9 game winning streak and League MVP. Boy did I want that Lombardi Trophy to accompany the personal accolades.
San Diego. The Chargers. Two years in a row, they've knocked out the Colts. It's a little too reminiscient of New England, without the titles.
Pride. I identify the Colts with where I live. I want Indianapolis to be a dynasty. I suffered through the lean years in the nineties, and became a fan. I pay for season tickets. I invest money, high blood pressure, and time with my buddy I'd never trade. It's an experience. I've tasted the pinnacle, and it was sweet.
Before you write this off as drivel, let me say something. I am very lucky. I am lucky because things in my life are good enough to be able to worry about a professional sports team. But I'd be lying if I said the spring in my step hasn't been absent this past week.
Colts blue for all the wrong reasons.
Seven straight years of playoff appearances. A couple of AFC Championship heartbreaks. A glorious Super Bowl. And a few too many 1st round exits, this being the latest. This one seemed to hurt more than others.
When Darren Sproles ran the overtime touchdown into the Colts end zone and those referee's arms went up parallel, I just sat there and stared, trying to be a good host and wish farewell to my friends who cheered on the Colts with me that evening, but my half-hearted smile was false, and my heart was dull. Zombie-like, I ambled through the house, going through the motions of getting ready for bed, needing solace, but craving solitude. Go to sleep, and maybe it will have been a dream.
This one hurt a little more. With no particular tier of importance, let me explain why.
The Coach. Tony Dungy is an honorable man. He will leave football and work for the good of those less fortunate. Today, that was confirmed. But I had the feeling this was it. I wanted a storybook ending. A second Super Bowl ring earned from a game played, with poetic justice, in Tampa, Florida.
The Wide Receiver. Marvin Harrison is legendary. He is a 1st round ballot Hall of Famer someday. The past 2 seasons have been tough. Chances are, he won't be a Colt next season. A championship would have lightened these hard realities.
The Quarterback. Peyton Manning. Who works harder? A rocky beginning of the season after two knee surgeries to a 9 game winning streak and League MVP. Boy did I want that Lombardi Trophy to accompany the personal accolades.
San Diego. The Chargers. Two years in a row, they've knocked out the Colts. It's a little too reminiscient of New England, without the titles.
Pride. I identify the Colts with where I live. I want Indianapolis to be a dynasty. I suffered through the lean years in the nineties, and became a fan. I pay for season tickets. I invest money, high blood pressure, and time with my buddy I'd never trade. It's an experience. I've tasted the pinnacle, and it was sweet.
Before you write this off as drivel, let me say something. I am very lucky. I am lucky because things in my life are good enough to be able to worry about a professional sports team. But I'd be lying if I said the spring in my step hasn't been absent this past week.
Colts blue for all the wrong reasons.
Friday, November 7, 2008
The Captain

As the sun shines down on Latitude 24*, and Longitude 81*,
as it inevitably will, take in the ultra violet rays,
feel the warmth, and know that Captain Tony is
looking down at the Straits of Florida, 428 Greene Street,
and a passel of loving children, adoring Conchs, and strangers
who felt the Key West connection in the hand shake of a man
who hitched a ride to the last resort on a milk truck some years ago.
Monday, July 28, 2008
Low Country Dog
Kipper took his first family vacation this summer. He rode down with us in the Tahoe to the island of Hilton Head in southeast South Carolina. The coastal land and its islands in this part of the state are known as the Low Country. Kipper didn’t seem to mind the 14 plus hour drive, and even seemed to bask in this extended opportunity to sleep on or between the backseat travelers. In fact, there was nary a complaint of boredom, hunger, nor confinement to a backseat shared with 3 humans.On his first morning on the island, he was taken by his father and paternal grandmother (in the human sense) to the somewhat remote Tower Beach for his first ocean experience. Drawn to the surf, he quickly learned to negotiate the lapping waves as they danced in their rising and falling motion on the hardened sand. Emboldened by his success in tracking this moving, strangely salted water, he let the glorious waves of the Atlantic wet his virgin, canine paws. Awed by the magnificence of the moment, he was strangely silent.

Softened by the heavy, salted air that accompanies life on an island, Kipper quickly took to his new environment. Walking among the fallen needles of the pines that populate the island, he found plenty to sniff on his leashed walks. As a matter of fact, he greatly enjoyed his mid-evening walks along the ponds of the fairway behind the villa, which, in all honesty, were actually thinly veiled gator searches. One evening, we came upon a goodly sized fellow patiently and silently waiting, presumably, for an ill-timed passing of a creature that would satisfy his hunger until the next morning’s breakfast. If Kipper had in any way sensed the alligator at water’s edge, I’m confident he would have barked and postured (at a safe distance, of course) with the bravery of other notable South Carolinian dogs such as The Great Dog Chippy*, until the shrill and piercing barks sent the large reptile back into the peaceful, murky, and soundproof waters of the briny pond. If Kipper was ever ambushed by such an alligator, I’m quite certain he’d make an adequate meal, if not something of a delicacy, being Yankee blood and all. Sometime during the week, during one of our morning beach walks, which quickly became an expectation, I decided to dub Kipper a Low Country Dog. Now such a title is only honorary, of course. A week on Hilton Head during the year does not entitle any dog to such a permanent moniker. Even a beach fling with a southern belle sheltie, Kaylie, if we must kiss and tell, can’t earn a pooch such prominence. But back in Indiana, walking through the neighborhood, I noticed Kipper sniffing the air, as if something wasn’t quite right. The air was heavy, but, and this is my own deduction, the evaporated salt from the ocean wasn’t on the breeze. The only thing missing from this article is a picture of Kipper next to a Palmetto tree, which I’m sure he would have gladly marked as his own. You know, being a Low Country Dog and all.

*The Great Dog Chippy is the main character’s childhood dog from Pat Conroy’s novel, Beach Music. Jack McCall tells his daughter, Leah, fantastic and greatly exaggerated stories about the heroic feats of his childhood pooch.
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